Showing posts with label high holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label high holidays. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 15, 2025

Thanks, Dorshei Derekh, for a Wonderful Launch to 5786

 










Thanks, High Holiday Committee for pulling off so many services, so smoothly!
R' Avruhm Addison
Joyce Silverman
R' David Teutsch
R' Simkha Weintraub
Service Leaders

R' Avruhm Addison
Alex Avelin
Bobbi Breitman
R’ David Dunn Bauer
Mikael Elsila
Sheila Erlbaum
R’ Dayle Friedman
R’ Beth Janus
Naomi Klayman
Ruth Loew
David Mosenkis
Dina Pinsky
R’ Jacob Staub
R’ George Stern
R’ Bob Tabak
R’ Leah Wald
R' Deborah Waxman

Torah and Haftarah

R’ Avruhm Addison
R' Debrah Cohen
R’ Dayle Friedman
Michelle Friedman
Miriam Goldberg
Mikaela Kessler
David Mosenkis
Robert Mosenkis
Barb Pearson
Betsy Teutsch  

Divrei Torah and Teaching

Jennifer Paget
R' David Teutsch
Deborah Weinstein
R’ Simkha Weintraub

Shofar

David Mosenkis
R’ Nahariyah Mosenkis
R’ George Stern

Special Thanks

Noah Boyer, composer

Chorus

Jeffrey Alexander
Bret Boyer
Miriam Goldberg
David Mosenkis
Heather Shafter
Sonia Voynow

Torah Holders for Kol Nidrei:  
  • Betsy Teutsch for her leadership of the Mazkirut
  • Rabbi David Dunn Bauer for leading services and sharing his beautiful voice with us
  • Deborah Weinstein for her commitment to DD by serving on the Mazkirut and her willingness to bring her thought-provoking drashim to us
  • Mikael Elsila for bringing his musical talents to GJC and enhancing our joint services
  • Rabbi Debrah Cohen for leyning throughout the year and sharing her knowledge of Jewish texts with us
  • Mark Pinsky who works diligently every week to gather all the information we need to know about DD services, activities, and the participants in them, and still has strength to do Hagbah. 
Their variety of contributions to DD exemplifies the power of individuals that make our minyan a welcoming spiritual home for us all. We are proud to honor them as Torah holders.


Wednesday, September 25, 2024

Yamim No'raim 2025










On behalf of our amazing High Holy Days Planning Committee—Joyce Silverman, Rabbi Avruhm Addison, Rabbi David Teutsch, and Rabbi Simkha Weintraub—we are pleased to share the schedule for Dorshei Derekh's services. We will meet in person in the Temin Canteen Room and 

Thursday, October 3rd
Rosh Hashanah Day 1
9:30 am
 
Friday, October 4th
Rosh Hashanah Day 2
9:30 am
 
Saturday, October 5th
Shabbat Shuvah
10 am
 
Friday, October 11th
Kol Nidre
6 pm
 
Saturday, October 12th
Yom Kippur
 
Morning @ 9:30 am
 
Afternoon & Evening
Bregman Program @ 3:30 pm
Pre-Ne'ilah Study @ 4:40 pm
Ne'ilah @ 5:45 pm
Tekiya G'dola @ 7:07 pm
 
Before each event, we will share more detailed information, including resource sheets.
 
Shana tovah!

Sunday, July 30, 2023

Shabbat Nachamu - A Positive Viduii (by Avi Weiss) - Betsy Teutsch D'rash

Parshat V'etchanan/Shabbat Nachamu -July 29, 2023 - Shabbat Shalom.



I want to dedicate this D’rash to two of our minyan teachers whose Torah has stuck with me, Rabbi Avruhm Addison and Christina Ager and informed my davar.


As we read Parshat Vaetchanan, we are in the first Shabbat of the seven known as the Shabbatot of Consolation, named for today’s Haftarah’s words, Nachamu - Comfort. After the tragic destruction commemorated on Tisha B’Av, and for many the events in Israel this week, we reach a liturgical nadir. 

Now we look ahead seven weeks to the High Holidays. This is the beginning of the reverse 49 Omer, if you will, to complete our Chesbon HaNefesh, the accounting of our soul, and then we will confess our bad deeds on Rosh Hashanah through Yom Kippur.


In this parshah God is the source and enforcer of a code of behavior, in a manifestly hierarchical system. God has all the power. We should not disobey God’s laws. There’s no justification or explanation for the Torah’s laws; it’s because God Said So. You want proof? Look at creation. Who else could have done this?

And if you don’t obey, you will be punished big time.

If you stick with the program, you and your progeny will thrive.

 “For your God יהוה am an impassioned God, visiting the guilt of the parents upon the children, upon the third and upon the fourth generations of those who reject Me,

וְעֹ֥֤שֶׂה חֶ֖֙סֶד֙ לַֽאֲלָפִ֑֔ים לְאֹהֲבַ֖י וּלְשֹׁמְרֵ֥י (מצותו) [מִצְוֺתָֽי]׃ {ס}    

but showing kindness to the thousandth generation of those who love Me and keep My commandments.

This world view and theology is obviously not how we moderns think. It reflects a period of competitive local Gods, with tribal clan structure. YHVH is an all powerful, non-local, God. This was a new concept. As is the idea of God’s abstract nature. Hence the Ten Commandments, in today’s parshah, emphasize worshiping one God, and no others. No idols, like the other peoples!

Deuteronomy reviews all that God did for our people, and our indebtedness. Fidelity is required; infractions will be punished. 

This is why the middle paragraph of the Kol Haneshamah Shma has a different choice - it’s not about reward and punishment. We think in terms of  behavior and consequences.

We must find a balance between the God of Judgment, so present in this Parsha, and the God of Compassion and Mercy, whom we continually seek, especially as we approach the High Holidays.

Din is the strict and severe aspect of God judging us and doling out punishment for what we did wrong and reward for what we did right. And Rachamim (which comes from the word “womb” or “rechem”) is the soft aspect of God’s love and caring for us, no matter what, just because we are God’s children. - Rabbi Rachel Goldenberg

In our world we emphasize examining our behavior, not worrying much about our ritual infractions. Average people cut corners more than they sin big! We don’t typically worry about God keeping score.

A corner cutting example: our great nephew Zeke included an early grade school song in his Bar Mitzvah davar, “Do The Right Thing Because It’s RIght, even if no one’s watching!” He got us all to sing it.

Later that week David and I debated about how to handle our VRBO. We had paid for two adults for a week, but for a few days our kids and grandkids were with us. There wasn’t any method to reserve for a partial week of added guests on the website. Our host wasn’t watching, but we weren’t following the rules.

As we wrapped up our rental, I texted our host the facts: 2 adults and 2 kids had joined us for 3 nights. His reply was, “Don’t worry about it!” It felt right to have been truthful, though we well might have owed more.

The opening of the season of seven weeks of pre-High Holiday preparation, focusing on self-reflection to accomplish tshuvah, returning ourselves to the right path, goes about things in ways that I find personally ineffective. 

Today I want to help us get started by using what we know from behavioral science - I am not alone in resisting negative assessment: People need positive reinforcement. In a d’rash many years ago, Christina Ager, a professor of education, taught us that to help students improve their behavior, they need 5 times as much positive feedback as negative. Our hand is a handy digital counter.

Beating up on ourselves is not very effective.

We need to recognize what we have done correctly to motivate us to keep on doing it, and doing it even more. We of course shouldn’t highlight positives while failing to hold ourselves accountable for bad deeds, but flipping the balance of positive to negative can be more efficacious.

Cultivating and emulating God’s compassion to God’s creatures, and extending it to  ourselves, is important. We need to extend it to others, as well, moving when we can from judginess to generous love, tempering our judgements by dan bcaf z’chut, withholding judgment and ascribing good intentions to the actions of others.

“According to midrash Pesikta Rabbati 40, “Initially, God intended to create the world with the attribute of Justice. But then God saw that the world cannot exist [with only Justice], so God gave priority to the attribute of Mercy, and joined it with the attribute of Justice.” 

When I shared my frustration with the negative tone of our liturgy with Rabbi Avruhm Addison, he shared a Positive Vidui written in 2016 by Rabbi Avi Weiss [it's at the beginning of this post. ]I keep it in my machzor. For today, I reformatted it so you can more clearly how beautifully the Hebrew and English connect.


We’re going to experiment today with sharing positive messages about: OURSELVES. That is something we are socially conditioned to avoid, as it might be perceived as bragging. 

In small groups, please share:

  1. A positive change you have been successful in making, and stuck with. It could be big, or it can be as small. “I always have dollar bills to share with people on the street”, or “I compost”. You might say, “I go to morning minyan every Thursday.” 

  2. Or, something you have stopped doing, and managed to stick with. You may   have managed to refrain from something for decades - give yourself credit.

No judgments, but you need to take turns saying things you have managed to do (or not do) consistently, through making an effort.




Sunday, September 15, 2013

Open Our Gates - Yom Kippur Davar Torah by Betsy Teutsch 5733

Open Our Gates: Not Either/Or, but Both/And


[Note: at the suggestion of Joyce Norden, I am including links for those who would like more information or wish to donate to some of these initiatives.]
Shabbat shalom, on this the Shabbat of Shabbatot, the holiest moments of our year.
In today’s haftarah, Isaiah takes us to task for performing atonement rituals while the poor suffer.  “Is it not the sharing of your bread with those who starve, the bringing of the wretched poor into your house, or clothing someone you see who is naked?” which is the point?


On Yom Kippur, we pray for compassion, realizing that even though we have good deeds to commend us, we have all fallen short.  We pray to do better, and to make it through the closing gates of compassion.  We pray for sustenance, mazel, protection, safety, security -  none of which we can take for granted, but mostly, we do.  


One of the important things about Isaiah’s words is the exhortation to care for those who we see.  But in our modern world, increasingly we do not see the have-nots.  While it may not be our intent, it is the result of planning, policy, and increasingly disparate income distribution which protects and reinforces privilege.  We live in metaphorically gated communities, walling ourselves off.  If we want to get through the gates of redemption, we need to take a good look at how we systematically keep our gates closed to the Other.  


Today I will mention seven gates of protected privilege, and then I will share seven relatively simple gate busters.  The first seven gates are local/national; the seven gate openers are global, reflecting the book research I have been doing for the last 18 months on global poverty alleviation. In truth, it is easier to provide life-saving drugs for a dollar a dose than to restructure American life.


Let’s look at seven gates within which we live our lives.


1. Through a combination of burglar alarms, so-called “security systems”, air conditioning, and cars, we have effectively gated our houses so that no one can get through, unless we let them, or they outsmart us.  In our house, the dreaded invader is actually pollen.  As a result, we have accepted lifestyles which preclude anyone, friend or neighbor, ever dropping by. Our doors are closed.  When is the last time you were a spontaneous visitor, or hosted spur of the moment guests?  If a person in need knocked on our doors, most of us would feel very nervous about letting them in.  Because we would think a person that did this is crazy.  What kind of world have we built, that if someone needs something and reaches out directly at our doorsteps, we are most inclined to call 911?


2.  We have literally built gated communities.  I often made fun of the one my in-laws lived in, since it actually had a gate, for which you needed a password or someone to buzz you in, but any affluent American neighborhood actually has an invisible gate.  Housing stock tends to be segregated by class, perhaps, rather than race, but segregation it is.  A low income family on my block set off a stir because their noisy kids played outside all the time.  “This is not how people behave here”, one irate African American neighbor complained.  


3.  We have created an alternate system of private education, so very few of us send our kids to the local public schools, unless we live in high income areas.  We sent our kids to day school, so we felt somewhat virtuous, but in fact, we fit into the same pattern as most upper-middle-class Philadelphians.  Our kids received superior educations with PLU’s - People Like Us.  I learned this term from my daughter-in-law Becca and it captures the assumptions we share with peers, or within lifestyle enclaves.   


Mt. Airy is very PLU, if you shop at Weavers Way, eat local, and live in precincts which are 98% Democratic.  I just read in the NYTImes Retirement section that 1 in 500 Americans over 65 have a regular yoga practice. If you find that surprising, welcome to the club, since in our neighborhood it is more like 1 in 5.  Private school, for all its merits, has gradually hollowed out public education and contributes to the shameful situation in which we find ourselves today. Not intentional, but just the same, we have erected a gate around our children to make sure they have good educational experiences, and as for the rest of the children - we will go to rallies and beg for money from Harrisburg and hope it works.


4.  We have built transportation systems designed for people with adequate financial resources.  That means you drive a car, or if you go a distance, you fly.  Amtrak is an expensive option, but it IS an option in the Bos-Wash corridor.  I lived in Philly for 20 years before I got on a bus, because I had no idea where they went, and the system was not designed to attract affluent customers.  Buses, in Philly, are for poor folk.  


I recently visited Mpls, and was heading from there to Des Moines, Iowa, to visit family.  I logged onto Amtrak to make a reservation, but - no train!  Not on the Bos/Wash corridor.  There were flights, I am sure, but I wanted to see the cornfields, so I booked a Greyhound bus.  (Not a Bolt or Mega, with wifi.  Just Greyhound.)  There was no accessible info online on how to get from the airport where I was dropping off my car to the bus depot downtown.  The car rental people had no information, having never talked to anyone who needed to travel to a bus depot.  Eventually I took a van downtown to Greyhound, and was pretty flabbergasted when the first stop on our journey was - the Twin Cities airport.  Point is, so few people ever need this information that it is invisible.


At a bus stop break, where we parked at  a gas station convenience store in SmallTown, Minnesota, one of the passengers started to shake and lose his balance.  This happened a few times, and the clerk came out from behind her plexiglass shielded cash register to check on him.  He confirmed he was NOT okay.  The bus driver came around and instructed this kind woman to call an ambulance.  Then we took off.  An impoverished man taken care of by our safety net - that’s a good thing.  But what happened to him next, after he was discharged from the emergency room?


5. While the gentleman on the bus was taken to a hospital, for many in our country, that is not the case.  They are undocumented and will be turned away, or they ironically have too much income to qualify for medicaid but not enough to afford insurance.  Let us pray that the expansion of medical care insurance in our country will move forward.  


6. When I was young, my male counterparts worked very hard to avoid the draft.  That was Vietnam, a turning point for our country when young, well-educated (which means affluent) men resisted the call to military service.  This upended our military which was, cleverly and with our complicity, recast as a Volunteer Army.  In exchange for taking the risk of being killed, or disabled for life, you can enlist in our armed forces.  Affluent people rarely take the military up on this offer, so we have walled ourselves off from risk-sharing and outsourced our defence to lower income Americans with fewer options and more interest in service.  You can bet we would not have invaded Iraq if it had involved drafting high income soldiers, People Like Us.


7.  The immigration debate rages, and due to post 9/11 security concerns, we have made it ever harder to immigrate to this country.  We make it difficult for students who want study visas, and we have actually built a separation wall on the Arizona/Mexican border despite the fact that Mexican immigration has markedly slowed.  In one generation the Mexican birth rate has dropped from 7.3 per Mexican woman in 1960 to 2.4 in 2009.  Jobs dried up during our recession, and the Mexican economy has been improving.  Just saying.


In general, we Americans have not just gates on our Northern and Southern borders, but are bounded by two oceans.  We manage not to see the rest of the world, even more than we manage not to see American poverty.  Not to say that it is picnic to be poor and homeless in the United States, (and hats off to all the work our community does through NPIHN to address local homeless families) but relatively speaking, try living without running water, electricity, and sanitation, and you’d take American poverty hands down.


Hence the next part of my talk.  Unfortunately I am not telling seven stories of easy fixes for the situations I just outlined.  But when it comes to world poverty, there are easy fixes.  Because of inadequate governance and inequitable distribution, end users cannot access them.


Whether you fast with difficulty, or find it a meaningful spiritual practice, hunger for us is just that - an option.  I want to share with you seven ways of improving people’s lives  globally, many of which I have learned about in this last year, researching a book on 100 Tools under $100 for poverty alleviation.  Quite a few of them involve food.


Giving the kind of aid the haftarah envisions, handouts, is obviously important.  The persistent poverty described by Isaiah presumes poverty is a constant.  But we are learning that many of the poverty traps - the things that keep the poor getting poorer -  can be addressed and some can be avoided altogether.  We will not get rid of global poverty, but we can lessen its severity, and help people with a hand up.  Poor people are praying for sustenance, mazel, protection, safety, security - just the same as we are.


1. Children in our world starve.  Droughts, disasters, or political disruptions destroy harvests and citizens of failed states are driven from their homes, seeking food and shelter.  There are - God Bless Them - massive NGO humanitarian responses to meet this flood of need.  (LIke two million in refugee camps in Syria as we speak.)  In the past acutely malnourished children were fed by IV, in field hospitals. Some recovered, but being in a hospital with malnourished children weakened from pneumonia and diarrhea is not where you want to be.


Enter Plumpy’nut.  A French physician, Andre Briend and food engineer Michele Lascanne developed this ready-to-use therapeutic food (RUTF) in the 90’s - which is a tube of peanut base with essential micronutrients added.  Acutely malnourished children can now squeeze the food right into their mouths, and can be cared for by family without hospitalization.  This has multiplied the number of children which can be saved manifold.  It is patented and franchised to factories in the developing world, nearer to locations where it is needed, providing a market for local farmers, as well as employment.  this also lowers the cost.  It does not answer the question of the mother who receives a box of a month’s supply - what is she supposed to eat herself?  What is she to feed her other children, who are hungry, if not technically acutely malnourished?
You can donate to Edesia Global , which manufactures Plumpy’Nut in Providence RI for global humanitarian distribution.  



2. Pregnant mothers who are anemic, generally an iron deficiency resulting from inadequate nutrition, are at high risk for hemorrhaging in childbirth.  Maternal death is a tragedy.  It is also a disaster, if not a death sentence,  for a woman’s surviving children.  Much effort has been expended this last decade of the Millenium Development Goals to lower maternal death, and there have been many gains.  But that just means fewer women die of completely preventable (and completely predictable) birth complications.  We are talking about millions and millions of at-risk women.


Misoprostol is a well-researched pill which prevents postpartum excessive blood loss and is recommended by the WHO.  It does not need refrigeration nor does it require an injection.  It saves mothers’ lives, and is an off-patent drug, so it’s very inexpensive. The problem is getting it to the birth attendants and clinics.


Melodie Holden started an organization called Venture Strategies Innovations which now works with health systems in 15 countries to get women access to miso.  Countless women’s lives have been saved, and they live to take care of the new baby and their other children.  
Fewer people need to say “your wife, your mother, your sister, your daughter, or your friend bled to death because of the lack of a pill that costs under $1.”  Amen.
here is their link: http://www.vsinnovations.org/


3. And while we talk about malnutrition - especially when all our stomachs are growling - how about addressing this problem before children become acutely malnourished (that means, near death)?  Inadequate nutrition isn’t just calories, it is also a deficit of essential micronutrients like vitamin A, iodine, zinc, and iron.  Worldwide a quarter of a billion kids get inadequate Vitamin A, which is the leading cause of blindness, and death, and is entirely preventable.  


Breastfeeding is the first course of action, along with supplements. Another approach is to encourage the cultivation of more nutritious crops, some of which can be bred to increase their delivery of micronutrients. A major initiative, SASHA - Sweet Potato Action for Security and Health in Africa - is working to deploy sweet potatoes, which are rich in - yes - vitamin a.  They require less water and pesticides than more popular, common crops, and are far more nutritious.  The initiative seeks to raise their popularity and improve their durability and yield. Some if this is done through genetic techniques, the results of which are publicly shared.  This is a side of the GMO debate you don’t hear much, within our gates.  
For more Info, http://cipotato.org/research/partnerships-and-special-projects/sasha-program - this is funded by the Gates Foundation.


4. So, we improve yields.  That is good, but one little known fact is that after crops are harvested in the developing world, nearly 50% of the crops are ruined.  All that back-breaking labor, half of it performed by women farmers and blam - gone.   Insect infestation means that farmers either need to sell their crops right away, glutting the market and lowering prices, or use costly insecticides to preserve their crops.   
For $2.20, farmers can now purchase PICS -  Purdue Improved Cowpea Storage bags.  Developed by Indiana academics researching in the field with scientists from Africa, it is essentially a heavy duty triple ziplock bag.  It enables a staple, cowpeas (which we call black-eyed peas) to be stored without insecticides, since the bag keeps out all moisture, preventing infestations.  Farmers  can benefit from their full crop production, and sell the stored grain when prices are higher.  Twice as much food and more than twice the income.  The bags are now manufactured in Africa, creating jobs.  They can be reused many seasons.  $2.20 amortized over many growing seasons.  


5. One of the main causes of illness among the global poor is waterborne diseases.  Without sanitation, local water is continually polluted, and drinking it spreads disease. There are many effective water treatment approaches - such as filtration - which  requires equipment, chlorination which requires inputs, or boiling, which consumes fuel and generates emissions, but they all work very well.  


What is less well-known is SODIS, solar disinfection.  Simply fill a 2 liter #1 plastic bottle with untreated water and leave it in the sun for a few hours.  The ultraviolet rays will kill all the pathogens when the interior heat reaches 149.  All the extra heat required to bring the water to boiling, at 212, is unnecessary.  SInce the vast majority of the world’s poor live in areas of high solarization, this is very good news, but hard to disseminate.  People don’t really trust that it could be true.  but it is.  This simple technique will improve and save many lives, and trees, too.
You can donate a Solvatten unit for use in Haiti: http://www.thegreenhaitiproject.org/solvatten-ab.html


6. There is a field now, poor economics, which actually uses academic tools and studies how poor people make the myriad economic decisions they face every day.  Economists like Esther Duflo study how people fall into poverty traps from which it is nearly impossible to rise up.  Illnesses are one of the biggest causes of American family bankruptcies, and it is no different for the global poor.  A family member falls ill.  Money needs to be scraped together to take the patient to whatever passes for a hospital or clinic, medicines need to be paid for, and family members need to stay and provide the nursing.  All these outlays, while no one is bringing in any money, especially if the patient is a breadwinner, wipes out the family’s fragile economic resources.


If the patient dies, then there are expenses of funeral and burial.  Often people are forced to sell off productive assets to pay the bills - like livestock, or say, a daughter.  Pulling kids out of school.  Borrowing money at usurious rates to pay off debts.  The family is pretty much never going to restabilize.


A recent innovation, spawned by microfinance, is microinsurance.  For a few cents a week, families can buy life insurance.  If an insured person dies, the family quickly collect benefits to pay funeral expenses and settle debts, allowing the family to re-establish some security.  Believe it or not, African mobile phone companies are partnering with for-profit microinsurance companies to offer life insurance to  customers along with every purchase of mobile minutes, in order to develop loyalty in a very competitive market. Millions of people are obtaining life insurance for the first time, and it is helping them avoid that particular poverty trap.   


7.  How many people here have a birth certificate?  Within our gates, it is normal, but there are millions of global births each year that go unregistered.  That means these people are literally not counted.  Their births and deaths are not included in any demographic health or education studies, and they cannot access any government benefits.  Girls cannot prove their age and are vulnerable for forced child marriages.  No birth certificate, no passport.  People for whom birth registration is particularly challenging include nomadic peoples, migrant workers, remote indigenous tribes, and slum families dwelling in unrecognized shanty towns such as the one hauntingly depicted by Katherine Boo in Beyond the Beautiful Forevers. These problems are especially acute for stateless persons, such as refugees and their children, who can be stuck in legal limbo for decades.  (Our own Ari Brochin works with such a population of Burmese refugees in Thailand.)


NGO’s have been waging major campaigns to combat this problem, encouraging countries to make the process simple and free, with remarkably good results, including Apps For That.  Those birth certificates will certainly help open the gates of security for many millions of people previously denied access.
You can sponsor the registration of a child’s birth for $25.


It is a messy world.  I think, though, that Isaiah would be pleasantly surprised to know that we now have the ability to lessen the severity of many harsh fates.  


We sitting in this room are privileged because of good luck, not merit.  As Anne Frank famously said, "How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world."  Think of all that we can do to help inscribe others in the Book of Life..


May we merit to be inscribed as well.


To read more: my book project blog has many initiatives featured.


Sunday, September 8, 2013

Sonia Voynow: First Day Rosh Hashanah Davar Torah at Minyan Dorshei Derekh 2013/5774

Shana Tovah
The Torah and Haftarah portions we read on the first day of Rosh Hashanah are dominated by the theme of long-awaited babies.  Sarah experiences the joy of motherhood in her advanced years, long after she thinks it is possible.  When she perceives a threat to her son Isaac, coming from Hagar’s son Ishmael, Sarah feels the need to secure her son’s future, and convinces Abraham to send Ishmael and his mother away.  Hagar, exiled to the desert, is about to lose faith that she can protect Ishmael and herself from certain death, but ultimately, her eyes are opened to the way she can sustain them both. 

In our Haftarah reading, Hannah transforms her despair about her childlessness into an act of prayer that looks so idiosyncratic that she is accused by Eli, the priest, of being drunk.  The strength of her prayer leads to her ability to conceive at long last.  She bears a son whom she names Samuel.

So the question arises:  Why, on Rosh Hashanah, are there all these stories about birth and babies?  One of the things I learned is that Rosh Hashanah is not the birthday of the world, as I had once thought, but rather the anniversary of the sixth day of creation, the day on which God creates man.  The Torah portions we read today, then, remind us of the miracle of new life and of new generations.

As I was preparing this talk, I had originally wanted to find something else in the text to talk about, but I kept coming back to babies. It finally dawned on me that my focus on babies might have some connection to my latest TV watching obsession: the PBS drama, Call the Midwife.  This series is based on memoirs written by Jennifer Worth, a British nurse who served as a midwife in the 1950’s.  When she was in her early 20’s, Jenny worked with an Anglican order of nuns in a town called Poplar, located in the poverty-stricken East End of London.  Jenny and the other midwives were exposed to conditions that were completely alien to what they had known before:  crowded tenements, often with no indoor plumbing, under-age pregnancies, prostitution, binge drinking… and so many babies.  This was a time before effective contraception, and in this small town of maybe 8 square miles, there were on average 100 babies born per month.  And Jenny and the other midwives would ride off on their bicycles to deliver these babies, day and night, often with very little in the way of sophisticated equipment to help them. 

Each episode of the show contains the drama within a drama of the miraculous act of childbirth.  There is a purity in the way that the midwives connect with the expectant mothers, joy in the shared effort of welcoming new life. 
But Call the Midwife is first and foremost a character study, not just of the colorful Poplar residents, but about the power of that community to transform Jenny, and the other midwives and nuns who worked there.  The neighbors in that community became Jenny’s teachers about love, caring and connection.   
Today, on this first day of Rosh Hashanah, I am going to talk about babies and birth, and even midwifery, but in a more symbolic way.  The central themes of Rosh Hashanah:  Teshuvah, Tefilah and Tzedakah:  repentance, prayer and charity…point to our capacity to be fruitful and to multiply.  All of us have the potential to be giving birth, if not to children, then to the important work and endeavors that are uniquely ours to accomplish.  We can re-imagine giving birth as the realization of our own particular gifts that we are able to bring out into the world.  And this fertility is possible, not in a vacuum, but in the context of community.  Community is the arena in which we not only learn about our gifts, but also get the chance to become a midwife and encourage someone else’s gifts to emerge.    
I came to this symbolic way of looking at baby-making from a wonderful teacher of psychotherapy, Paul Koehler.  Koehler believes that the work of the therapist and client is, at its best, a kind of baby-making.  It provides the freedom, and even, at times, sense of play, to produce something utterly unique:  expanded possibilities for oneself that comes from the ability to accept all of who we are.  As a psychotherapist, one valuable way to look at your relationship with a client is to ask yourself:  “Are we creating something new here, or, are we stuck rehashing stale and rigid ideas about oneself and others?  Can I help this client let go of fear, and encourage him or her to find possibility, even in the places that feel most hopeless?”  
During the month of Elul, which has just passed, we are told to read Psalm 27 daily, and in this Psalm we plead:  “Let me live in the house of the Lord all the days of my life.”  I didn’t know what “the house of the Lord” meant, but translations of this psalm, particularly one recent translation by Rabbi Yael Levy, have led me to think of living in “the house of the Lord” as growing our ability to discover the truths about our lives:  who we really are.  Seeing through all of the static of daily life to these truths is incredibly difficult, in large part because it is so hard to look at the unvarnished truth.  As my Mussar teacher, Rabbi Ira Stone, has said, we are imprinted with the record of every disappointment and every rejection we have ever experienced.  These wounds retain their power, even years after they are inflicted, and we are tempted to move as far away as we can from these parts of ourselves.  We don’t want to think about them.  We might even believe our only option is to disown the aspects of ourselves that we imagine connects to this pain. 
But what if these so-called defects were really the most powerful part of who we are?
The Jungian psychoanalyst, James Hillman, held the view that we are each born with our own peculiar genius, “like an acorn slowly blossoming…that is fate working through us”.  He believed that the trouble in realizing our destiny, is that this “acorn” often shows up in childhood as pathology, as traits gone awry that need to be fixed.  Hillman wrote a book examining the lives of great artists like Picasso, Zola, and Faulkner, and he looked at how “symptoms, genius, and destiny all mix together…a kind of preventive medicine, holding you back from a false route…limiting life to the only possibilities that are actually yours.”  Hillman believed that we are too often trying to change the essential parts of ourselves…. the parts that are the most powerful and unique.   He said, “The puzzle in therapy is not ‘How did I get this way?’, but ‘What does my angel want with me?’.” 
The question of what is true within us takes a lot of courage and discernment to answer.  So how do we begin to reveal what Hillman referred to as the acorn?  Today’s Torah and Haftarah portions contain some clues.  The stories we read, about the struggle to give birth, serve as lessons about the doubt and fear that can get in the way of our own ability to see what is true within us, and be fruitful. 
In Sarah’s doubts about her ability to have a child, we can hear a familiar refrain, “Who, me?  How could I ever do this thing?” Sara protests that she is too old, but when we are faced with something difficult, we have possibly come up with our own variations.  Perhaps we say: “I don’t have the skill” or  “I don't have time right now” or “I could never have that much patience.”   For Sarah, ultimately, age wasn't a factor; she was not only able to give birth but also to nurture her son.  In order to take the daring step of discovering and giving birth to our unique gifts, we learn from Sarah that we cannot take refuge in excuses.  
In the story of Hagar, there seemed to be no place for her and her baby.  The community she had been part of rejected both her and her child, and Hagar viewed this rejection as the truth. In her state of despair, we read that she placed her child “a bowshot away.”   That is a considerable distance.  In her pain, Hagar can't even look at her child.  She is paralyzed by fear, and we read that she raised her voice and wept.  But then, we read that God heard the child’s voice.  God hears Ishmael, not Hagar, and it was this voice that led God to open Hagar’s eyes.  Ishmael represented what was true and essential, not Hagar’s fears. Hagar found the well that she needed to nurture Ishmael, who eventually thrived as the father of the Ishmaelites, the people of the desert.  In the story of Hagar, we learn that we need to find the right place for our gifts, and not necessarily taking rejection as the final decision.
Hannah’s source of pain was her childlessness, and she did not try to hide this pain.  The text translation reads…"and she was in a bitter mood, and prayed to The Eternal, while she wept and wept.”  The sadness and bitterness that Hannah felt became the source of her strength, and we read that Hannah’s prayer reached God because of, not despite this pain.  Hannah’s son Samuel became one of the most important figures in Jewish history; our sages describe him as the equivalent of "Moses and Aaron combined."
            So in today’s Torah readings we see doubt, desperation and bitterness.  Even hopelessness. This seems to me a perfect reflection of what happens to us when we are confronted with certain aspects of our own truth.  There can be parts of ourselves that seem distasteful, even cringe-worthy.  There may be other parts of ourselves, a talent or an interest, perhaps, that feels too scary to explore.  We may feel defeated before we even begin. We definitely don't want to make a fool of ourselves.  We might say, “Who am I, to do this thing?  There is surely someone else who can do this.” 
But, as our Torah readings suggest, these sources of pain turn out to have tremendous power. Alan Lew, in his book, Be Still and Get Going, discusses the Torah passage in which Moses sees the burning bush and hears God’s name: “Ehiyeh asher Ehiyeh,” which means “I am that I am”, or “I will become what I will become”  Lew writes, “The will of God is expressed in the need of everything and everyone on earth to become what they are, what they are supposed to be.”
But Lew goes on to relate the bad news that many of us don't become all of what we are supposed to be.  The main reason is fear.  Lew says, “We are afraid of our lives, as afraid, perhaps, as we are of our deaths.”
This work of giving birth to our unique abilities and skills is clearly not something that can be done alone.  We need each other, to show us parts of ourselves that we might reject or hide, and to embolden us to continue along the path of becoming who we are. And here is where the strength of community comes in. 

James Hillman, the Jungian psychoanalyst I quoted earlier, felt firmly that our destiny, the sum of our gifts, only comes to light in the community.  He wrote, “Your true self is a self among, not a self apart.”

Engaging with community is a vital part of learning the truth about ourselves, and recognizing our “peculiar genius”. For one thing, community gives us the chance to experiment.  And here, I want to quote David Geffen, the music producer and philanthropist, with thanks to my friend Irene McHenry, who shared something that he wrote for the Jerusalem Post:
“My friends, the consensus may be that with aging we rust with “disuse” or grow musty with “stagnation.” But – it can be different. If you have a feeling that there is something special you are endowed with; a talent which can be well-utilized, grab hold of yourself and give it a try. Even if you do not succeed wildly, the effort will add a dimension to your life you never expected.”

And this is one of the gifts that community can give us, if we devote our energies to it.  In the Dorshei Derekh community, we have the good fortune of having the energy and talents of generous members who often step out of their comfort zone to try something new.  Our lay congregation does a wonderful job.  I have seen how people transform over time as prayer leaders.  Reading from the Torah is demanding, but we have people who volunteer to do this every Shabbat.  People step up to create a beautiful kiddushes.  Others, like me, overcome their feelings of terror and give a talk based on the Torah portion of the week. And many have spent time as leaders, doing the legwork and coordinating these various jobs so that we can put together services for Shabbat and holidays throughout the year.

Along with this energy and willingness, an essential part of a vital community is gratitude.  When we can access gratitude for the people who volunteer, knowing what it takes to do each and every task, we take on the role of midwife.  We can encourage others and let them know that they have given us something valuable.  And we can draw inspiration from others to try something new ourselves.  In other words, the gratitude and appreciation for peoples’ gifts facilitates their own journey of finding out about their acorn, the work they are meant to do.  This is the gift of community.

Margaret Wheatley, an organizational consultant, writes about the journey of giving birth to our own unique gifts.  She calls this journey becoming warriors for the human spirit.  She writes:  “As warriors for the human spirit, we discover our right work, work that we know is ours to do no matter what. We engage wholeheartedly, embody values we cherish, let go of outcomes, and carefully attend to relationships. We serve those issues and people we care about, not so much focused on making a difference, as on being a difference.”

So, as we embark on these Days of Awe with this backdrop of babies, let’s keep in mind the roadmap we are given: 

Teshuvah: repentance
Tefilah: prayer
Tzedakah: charity.

Teshuvah is being able to take a second look at the things that are difficult to uncover, those aspects of ourselves we imagine to be shameful or ugly.  Instead of rejecting these things outright, teshuvah encourages us to be curious about these things, to learn what they can tell us about ourselves.

Tefilah, or prayer, is what Rabbi Ira Stone describes as the stance we take in life.  Can we become more expansive, and take risks?  Can we, like Hannah, dare to pray in a way that expresses our truth, even when it draws criticism from others?

Tzedakah, acts of charity and acts of justice, is described beautifully in the Mahzor, Kol HaNeshamah : “Tzedakah is all about community, reminding us that our own salvation or self-fulfillment cannot exist apart from those with whom we share past, present and future.”

On this Rosh Hashanah, may we all be encouraged to be fruitful and multiply:  accepting and incorporating more of ourselves, learning new and surprising things about one another, and savoring the communities that give us the energy and inspiration to do this work.

Sonia Voynow serves as Dorshei Derekh Coordinator-in-Chief.  You can read about her work as a therapist at Surviving and Thriving.